Falling Back

[elcaptain]

For a good couple of months I was in a great state, happy, had everything going for me. I can't figure out what happened this past month but its all gone and I'm back to the "old depressed me". I'm sure many of you have dealth with this, does anyone have any tips or suggestions.

[LovePirate]

Had it before myself. The game is cyclical until one can master it and even then it goes in ups, downs, being on complete fire and being in a bit of a lull.

Same as life.

You need to keep going out, having fun, TRY not to be too outcome dependent, always remember that every failure is a learning experience that eventually leads to success.

Things are connected. Eventually and hopefully in a short period of time you will achieve some measure of success that goes beyond what you have achieved in the past. You will then find that you have hit a new level and understand things more. AHA moments. Then more interactions will go even better. Makeout w/one girl...makeout w/ two and then three.

Sleep with one girl, then the next week or month you will sleep with another.

One successful date leads to another with another.

Your state goes up when you go out...and you achieve more.

It all become more fun and less work. But you of course have to keep PUSHING YOURSELF and your limits for this to keep happening. Then one day it all CLICKS and becomes a natural part of who you are and how YOU do things.

It takes some longer than others. Some get it very quickly. Just keep going out with like minded wings of the same experience level. It's all out there and within you. Also keep posting and we can help you find the answers.
Maybe even give you some shortcuts.

Either way you're on the path to success now. Just remain active and you'll be enjoying it more frequently.

Best,
LP

[elcaptain]

Thank you so much for the well written response I won't give up this forum has been a great stepping stone.

[iceman2028]

Another thing that might help you is to find something to do other than game. I found that just going over this stuff makes you into a substanceless person and it affects other areas of your life while possibly enhancing your 'girl-getting' ability. Find a couple hobbies that you've always wanted to do and devote yourself to them.

Game is one of those things that if you internalize enough and make sure to go out, you are able to get better at it without really concentrating on the routine that much.

Do this and you will absolutely feel better.